To that end, we've been writing down what we've spent money on this week and...whew!...what an eye opener.
Financial books often tout this as a first step toward fiscal understanding. Boy, can I see why now.
I'm currently reading a recently purchased book which has turned out to be something of a catalyst for me: Suddenly Frugal: How to Live Happier and Healthier for Less
But that's all part of the learning curve, isn't it? As is this spending log.
Just like with dieting and keeping a "food log" so that you can calculate calories, keeping a spending log works on the same principle and makes you infinitely more conscious of how you spend your dollars. Or how you don't spend them.
For my spending log, I'm using an old mini-notebook that got bought years ago and never used, that I found in one of my desk drawers.
Lesson one? I buy a lot of crap that I don't immediately need -- especially something that I find on sale and because it's a good price, I think of it as spending money to save money and then never find a use for whatever it is I've bought -- and I need to stop it.

